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“Please don’t tell me the truth, ‘coz it’s hurts”
It’s not a direct statement. It was not a quote from a film. It was a nickname of a woman. It’s made me rethink on the distinct character of a woman, that is hard to be understood by others, Girls don’t really want to know the truth.

Pernah nonton Desperate Housewives? Great Movie, the way they mocked women’s natural tendency seperti berkaca pada sebuah cermin yang menampilkan dirimu yang sesungguhnya namun kamu tetap dapat mengenali bahwa bayangan itu bukan kamu yang sebenarnya.

Disalah satu episodenya, Bree mengungkapkan affair yang dilakukan suami dari salah satu temannya. Namun bukannya berterima kasih, wanita itu malah mencerca & menyalahkan Bree karena telah mengungkapkan affair suaminya. Despite knowing that her husband didn’t love her that much, wanita itu lebih memilih untuk menutup mata & berpura-pura pernikahannya baik-baik saja.

Kadang kala The soap operas happened in the real life.

2 bulan yang lalu, seorang teman baru saja putus. She spent the whole day lamenting how nice the ex-boyfriend was and blamed the breakup to her. One thing i know, 1 minggu sebelum mereka putus, i heard how this guy was really tired of the relationships, really wish to end it. Sampai sekarang she’s still don’t believe with the truth, masih menganggap mantannya itu yang terbaik & berharap hubungan itu baik kembali..

Salah satu sahabatku juga mengalami episode opera sabun itu.. Dia memiliki seorang teman dekat, the whole 2 years always spend time together work, hang out, care for each other. Till one day she realize that she love her boyfriend more than just a friend and told him how she’s feel bout him. But “the truth is hurts”, he still wait for other girls.. Sampai sekarang she can’t forget him, selalu menyalahkan diri.. Just wait.. wait… and keep hopping.. Belum bisa menerima he’s not the one, hanya harapan kosong..

Girls, why can’t you just accept the fact and move on?!
Well, Mungkin ada yang berpendapat hal ini mudah dilakukan,”Tidak baik merenungi diri terlalu lama, mengurung diri di dalam kamar, sendirian.. Memacu bunuh diri :D” dan ada yang berpendapat it’s the hardest thing to do,”Tidak semua wanita sekuat yang terlihat. Most of them don’t take their life as an adventure. They don’t have bad boys surrounding them and running their life as a good girl”.

“But what’s the point?! You’d know the truth anyway.. In the long run it will hurt you even more!”
Well, it’s all about choices. Know the hurting truth now or in the long run it still hurts even more. The point was, girls hate the truth.

“The truth will set you free. But before it does it will make you angry” - Jerry Joiner -

What Hurts The Most

I can take the rain on the roof of this empty house
That don’t bother me
I can take a few tears now and then and just let them out
I’m not afraid to cry every once in a while
Even though going on with you gone still upsets me
There are days every now and again I pretend I’m ok
But that’s not what gets me

What hurts the most
Was being so close
And having so much to say
And watching you walk away
And never knowing
What could have been
And not seeing that loving you
Is what I was tryin’ to do

It’s hard to deal with the pain of losing you everywhere I go
But I’m doin’ It
It’s hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I’m alone
Still Harder
Getting up, getting dressed, livin’ with this regret
But I know if I could do it over
I would trade give away all the words that I saved in my heart
That I left unspoken